Adoption Book Reviewed by Psychologist, Impressed

Adoption Book Reviewed by Psychologist, Impressed

Un-Adoptable? Faith Beyond Foster Care has hit the shelves and is shining a light on the struggles many adoptive parents do and will face. Reviewer Dr. P. Leslie Herold signs off on the story as an accurate portrayal of how trauma impacts families.


A must-read for anyone contemplating
fostering or adopting a child. In short, a
sobering heads up!

Dr. P. Leslie Herold.
Copyright: Janelle Molony
Copyright: Janelle Molony

I wanted to make sure I didn’t write a book from one “crazy lady” to the masses. My story is unique, but not too far removed from what many parents experience when raising a child with special needs: PTSD, developmental trauma/delays, ADHD/ADD, ASD, RAD, Seizures, Processing Disorders, Learning Disabilities… and dare I say more.

The story highlights the effects on a family when caring for a child from foster care who suffered and continues to suffer from devastating experiences in his past. There is no “poof of magic” that makes all the scary stuff vanish once the child comes to live in a healthy, stable, and loving home. The home, instead, and the people inside are rattled. But enough from me…

Let’s see what Dr. P. Leslie Herold, psychologist, counselor, professor, and co-creator of the Co-Parenting Model an award-winning curriculum through Solutions for Families has to say.


Janelle Molony’s story is a candid and courageous account of a loving, deeply committed foster, and later adoptive, Mom who not only survived being put to the test, but triumphed.

– Dr. P. Leslie Herold

P. Leslie Herold, PhD

As a psychologist, I was truly awed by the accounts of the boy’s age regressions. They are described in such detail, and with such psychological insight, that Janelle could teach a class in child psychopathology.

How utterly blessed he is and was to have Janelle and Ryan stick with him, with all the demands and crises. I’ll bet some prospective foster and adoption folks would read this and have a sobering reckoning:

“If I’m honest with myself, am I made of the stuff that made it possible for Janelle and Ryan to persevere?”

Review date: 6/15/19


Wow! I’m extremely appreciative of these insights. Thank you Dr. Herold! – Janelle M.


What to read next?

Mindsets of a Forever Parent

Do You Love Him? Or Hate Him? Secondary Trauma in Parents.

#MeToo. Responding To A Child’s Sexual Abuse.

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